Get inspired! 5 ways to turn on the blogging light bulb.

If you read my last post about the importance of blogging for your business, maybe it motivated you to finally get that blog started. Maybe you excitedly sat down at your computer, opened up your blog, cracked your knuckles, put your hands on the keyboard and thought…

“What the heck am I going to write about?”

Yep, I feel your pain. I’m a writer. I write for a living. I can come up with topics all day long for other people. But when it comes to my blog? Nada. Zip. I can practically feel the tumbleweeds rolling through the hollow recesses of my brain.

It’s just harder writing for yourself. It’s a scientific fact. Okay, I don’t know that for sure but I bet there’s some research on that somewhere.

Anyway, I’ve found that sitting down at your computer and waiting for inspiration to strike you while staring at a blank screen is the absolutely worst way to get inspired.

So don’t do that. Try some of these instead:

Look at other blogs.

Please notice I said “look” not “copy.” Copying = bad. Very, very bad. But checking out other blogs in the industry – even if they’re not in your particular niche – is a perfectly legitimate way to see what other people are talking about and interested in. Particularly note which topics are popular or have a lot of conversation around them. And don’t think because someone else (or 100 someone elses) has written about dog poop that you can’t write about dog poop, too. Your perspective and spin on the topic – even more than the topic itself – is really what helps set you apart and keeps people coming back.

Keep on top of current events

Just scrolling through your Facebook feed can be a wealth of inspiration. Be aware of the things that everyone seems to be talking about and jump on that wagon, especially if you have expertise in that area. For example, is there a new, controversial training technique people are discussing? Or a hot news story about the rescue community? Or proposed legislation that potentially affects pets or pet owners? Blog about it!

Get personal

 Some of my most popular posts have been when I’ve gotten a little more personal. For me, having a blog is really about two things – helping others and making connections. And there’s nothing that will make others feel more connected to you than cracking the door a little and letting people see inside. I’m not saying to air your deepest, darkest secrets because that would be, well, awkward. But, for example, if you’re a trainer and you’ve struggled with training your own dog, it’s okay to tell your readers. It makes you human and more relatable when you say, “Look, I get it. I’ve been there, too.”

Interview people

Interviewing someone else about a topic is probably one of the easiest blog posts you’ll ever write. This is especially great when you’re not an expert on a topic but you know someone who is. After the interview, you can write a post around the topic and insert their quotes. Or…even easier…just transcribe your interview into a Q&A form. (Be sure to ask them if you can record the interview before you start.) It’s also a great way to cross-pollinate audiences by linking to their site within the interview and by asking them if they would be willing to post the interview on their own platforms.


If you’re still not sure what to write about…ask! Reach out to your mailing list (you do have a mailing list, don’t you?) with a quick one-question survey: “What topics would you like to see covered on my blog?” Add some multiple-choice answers to make it easy and also leave a spot for them to fill in their own topic. People really love to help other people out and you’ll probably be surprised by the number of responses you get. I’ve used both Survey Monkey and Wufoo, and had good experiences with both.

I hope those suggestions helped! And if you have any inspiration suggestions of our own, I’d loooooove to hear those, too. Just leave a comment below.

Do you really need a business blog?

Photo by Glenn Carstens-Peters

If you have an online presence, you’ve probably heard that blogging is important. And maybe you’ve kinda sorta hoped that was just a mean, awful, exaggerated rumor. Because, yeesh, who has time to blog? And what would you blog about anyway? And does blogging really make that much of a difference? Isn’t it enough to just have a nice site and offer a great service or product?

Well, maybe. Maybe you could just putter along doing what you’re doing and still get an okay search ranking and make a decent living. But if you want to stay ahead of the competition, reach more people and grow your business, the hard truth is that you’ve gotta blog.

I know. I’m sorry.

But here’s the good news: When you blog on a regular basis – meaning even once a month – you reap a whole passel of rewards, like:

Better search rankings

Google rewards sites that offer authentic, helpful, original content. So whenever a search engine crawls your site and finds super awesome new content, bam! Up in the rankings you go.

Creating positive connections

Even in the seemingly impersonal world of the Internet, customers still want to buy from people they feel like they know and can trust. Surveys have found that 82% of consumers feel more positive about a company after reading custom content. And when consumers feel warmly toward you, they’ll be more likely to do business with you.

Encouraging more time on your site

Consumers love great content. In fact, surveys show that 68% of consumers spend time reading content from brands they’re interested in. Regularly posting content that your customers or prospects find useful will help ensure they return to your site again and again.

Getting people talking

By writing helpful content that people want to share, your blog posts will reach people that may never have heard of you otherwise. This is especially important since it’s estimated that by 2020, customers will manage 85% of their business relationships without ever talking to a human being!

Generating more leads

At this point you’re probably thinking, “Yeah, but does blogging actually make me money?” It sure has the potential to. That’s because B2C businesses that blog get 88% more leads than small businesses that don’t. HUGE!

Listen, I get it. Blogging is one of those marketing things that gets pushed down the list for “when I have more time.” I’m guilty of it myself, even though I know how important it is (and even though I actually write for a living). But if you want to build your business and bring in more money in 2018, it’s time to dust off that long-neglected blog of yours or finally start a new one!

Your turn: Do you blog regularly? If not, what’s holding you back? Share with me in the comments.

P.S. If just the thought of blogging makes your eyes roll back in your head, I’m happy to help! Start by sending an email to to learn more about my blogging services.

The Stories We Leave Behind

There’s no question 2016 was rough for a lot of people. When you lose David Bowie, Prince, Harper Lee, Gene Wilder and Leonard Cohen in one year, it’s bad. Period. But then add in civil unrest, protests and a tumultuous (and seemingly never-ending) election season and most of us will be only too happy to see this year in the rear-view mirror.

amber-mom-weddingFor me, the heartache of 2016 was compounded by my mother’s death in September, less than a year after my beloved grandmother passed away. Neither was unexpected, really.

My grandmother was 92, although in surprisingly good health until the day her heart suddenly stopped while she was sitting in her favorite chair cheering on her favorite football team (who was winning, by the way).

We should all be so lucky.

My mother was only 71 but had been confined to a memory care facility for the past four years due to early-onset dementia. During that time, we watched as this once vibrant, intelligent, funny woman lost her ability to talk, walk or even smile. She was trapped and I prayed over and over that she would be released from her prison.

When release finally came, I was with her. Even as a writer, I can’t find the words to truly explain the jumble of emotions that washed over me.










And weirdly, I kept thinking, “Well, I guess I’m an orphan now.” See, my father passed away suddenly five years ago at the age of 67 – the same age my mother was when she was placed in memory care.

It’s been a rough few years.

After my mother’s death, my siblings and I walked that path that has become all too familiar recently. The notification of friends and extended family. The writing of the obituary. The planning of the funeral.

We also told stories about my mother, most of them funny. We listened as others shared their own experiences with her, most of them funny. We cried a little. We laughed a lot.

And it occurred to me as I was traveling this road for the 3rd time in five years that that’s really what we are, isn’t it? Stories and experiences. The stories we leave behind. The experiences we’ve given to others. In the end, those are the things that really matter, that stay with us, that bind us together, that keep us alive when we’ve turned to dust.

Experiences and stories. That’s my goal for 2017 for my friends, my family, my clients and those I just meet in passing. To give a little more of myself. To be conscious of the experiences I’m creating for others. To leave a memory that turns into a smile or a funny story.

As you gear up for another busy year, I hope you’ll to take some time to think about your own experiences – those you’ve had and those you’ve given to others. What has stuck with you? What would you like to do more of? How can you create little moments that make you (and your business) someone people love to tell others about? What is, ultimately, the story you’re writing?

I truly hope all the chapters you write in the next year hold only good things, filled with exciting adventures, beautiful experiences, and lots and lots of funny stories.

Want more fans? Be like Barry Manilow.

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About six weeks ago, I opened a Facebook message from my sister:

Barry Manilow is going to be in concert in OKC in April. If you don’t come, you are dead to me.

She didn’t have to twist my arm. Growing up in the 70s, the two of us wore out our mother’s Barry Manilow albums. His songs, full of drama and emotion, appealed to our theatrical sensibilities and we knew every lyric by heart. So there was no freaking way I was going to miss the chance to belt out those songs with my sister again.

I may or may not have told just about everyone I know about the concert, including posting it on Facebook. The reactions were mixed. Like me, some waxed nostalgic about how much they loved him. Others, however, just looked perplexed and wanted to know why.

Why? WHY? Because he writes the songs that make the whole world sing, that’s why!

Well, the big night finally arrived last week, and IT WAS AWESOME! He is an absolutely amazing showman. More than that, though, he connects with his audience in a very personal way. He’s having fun, you’re having fun and for about an hour and a half, the world is a very happy, joyful place to be.


My aunt, my sister and I getting ready to get our Manilow on!

Of course, I get that Barry Manilow isn’t for everyone. But who cares? He doesn’t have to resonate with ZZ Top fans or Marilyn Manson fans or Taylor Swift fans. He just has to resonate in a deep and meaningful way with his fans. Which is something he does very, very well.

And that’s why I’m telling you to be like Barry Manilow.

It’s easy to fall into the trap of trying to appeal to everyone by playing it safe when it comes to copy and branding. But the truth is, there are always going to be people who don’t necessarily connect with you or what you have to say. And that’s okay! Because they’re never going to be your biggest fans, anyway.

On the other hand, if your messaging genuinely reflects who you are and what you stand for, you’ll attract the people you’re meant to work with and serve. The ones who resonate most deeply with your message will become your most loyal fans, and they’ll help grow your fan base by telling others about you.

In other words, you’ll have groupies! Seriously, who doesn’t want groupies?

And on that note, I have to go change into my Barry Manilow concert t-shirt.


Random question: If you could see anyone in concert, who would it be? Tell me in the comments below.

The Gift of Gab: Growing Your Business Through Word of Mouth

gift of gabAt the end of last year, I made a decision to improve my health. I’ve been a pretty faithful, if reluctant, exerciser for several years. But recently, I’d started to let it slide. So I decided I needed something fun and snazzy to renew my interest in cardio, squats and burpees.

I’d heard a few friends and family members mention how much they liked their Fitbits. A Fitbit, if you haven’t heard, is a bracelet that records the number of steps you’ve taken, calories burned, etc. It records all your stats and sends them to a nice little computer interface.

Intrigued, but not yet convinced, I decided to check out the reviews online. After all, this wasn’t some $5.00 purchase. I hit Amazon for everyday user reviews and a couple of other official review sites like CNET.

Overall, the reviews were good and I was sold. I ponied up the money and as I type this, a Fitbit is snuggled comfortably around my wrist.

My guess is that you’ve done the same sort of thing recently prior to making a purchase. Either the reviews and testimonials encouraged you to buy or you moved along to a different product with better feedback.

That, my friend, is the power of social proof.

Year after year, the Nielsen Group asks consumers which forms of advertising they trust. And year after year, consumers rank “recommendation from people I know” as number one. Number two is “consumer opinions posted online.”

And guess what? It’s the same for both B2B and B2C businesses. After all, corporate decision-makers are human, too.

Word of mouth. It’s the number one reason people buy what you’re selling.

If you’re not capturing comments from your deliriously happy customers, you’re missing the boat. Please, promise me that you’ll start. I mean it. Put up your right hand and repeat after me, “I, (insert name), solemnly swear to start getting feedback from my deliriously happy customers.”

It doesn’t matter how you do it, just do it. It could be email surveys, comments your customer service department receives, or an online review system. Just choose something and start implementing it now.

Then, when you have all these glowing reviews and recommendations, write them up. You can either turn them into short testimonials or longer, in-depth case studies/success stories.

Once that’s done, for the love of dog, don’t hide them. Make sure you get them in front of potential customers. Consider distributing them in various ways, including:

1. Your website
2. Facebook
3. Twitter
4. Pinterest
5. YouTube
6. Emails
7. Press releases
8. Google+
9. Blog posts
10. Product descriptions

As you can see, the ways to use social proof are almost endless. Get creative. Have fun with it. And whatever you do, get going!

Speaking of going, my Fitbit tells me I’ve still got 2,417 more steps to do today. Guess it’s time to leash up the dogs!

Your turn: Are you gathering customer feedback? How have you leveraged it? If you haven’t, what’s stopping you? Tell me in the comments.

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